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Posted by: Sara on: November 16, 2009

Wow.. I think its been ages since I did back to back to back posts!

Sakura was SUPER clingy today… she usually is fairly content to play with her links and baby gym and other toys, but as soon as I put her down today she got very very angry and wouldn’t stop crying unless I was standing up and holding her. No “easy” sitting down holding stuff…

Also she wanted to nurse quite a bit and fell asleep a couple times nursing on my lap which she hasn’t done forever… hope shes not getting sick :(

My “eating healthier” routine started today. Ryohei and I have decided not to eat any sort of sweets except on the weekends when we can splurge on something nice and hopefully save a bit of money and shed some kilos. I’m not going hardcore into dieting until Sakura’s firmly onto solids since I don’t want to mess with a good thing (aka my milk and milk supply) Will see if cutting the sweets out helps though… I think I may be stuck at my current weight until I’m done breastfeeding as no matter what I do – eat or ton or eat healthy the scale hasn’t budged in almost 2 months… shame that its stuck at such a bad bad place.

Usually I look forward to going home and shopping for new clothes… but not this time. In fact I think I won’t get that much just a few warmer weather basics to get me until spring when I PRAY I will be a bit closer to fitting into my pre-preg clothes…

May try and do the “Couch to 5K” running plan starting in the New Year… theres a 5K run in Nagaoka in April and maybe I can “train” with finishing that race as a goal. Not sure HOW I will be able to go out running with no one to watch Sakura though…

Anyways Ryohei is saying “its time to go to bed” so I guess thats all for tonight. Didn’t really have anything exciting to post about – oh well Sakura rolled tummy to back again today. She did it with quite a bit of momentum and bumped her head on the (carpeted) floor and wailed for a while. She is ALWAYS turning on her side now when on her back and she gets SO ANGRY she can’t seem to roll over.

Ok going to bed now I promise! Three weeks until we are off to America!!!

Weekend Stuff

Posted by: Sara on: November 15, 2009

We had a fun weekend! Actually weekends are usually pretty fun here since Ryohei is around and its not just Sakura and me all day long… (that gets old pretty quick since its not like she can really do much on her own and i think she gets bored of just seeing me and the occasional old lady at the nearby grocery store.)

Friday we went to spend the night at the PIL since they live closer to Gunma and Sakura and I took the local train 50 minutes from Nagaoka Station to the one about 7 minutes from Ryohei parents. I had (in hindsight poorly) planned for Sakura to get her afternoon nap on the train ride but she woke up after only 15 minutes due to loud high school students and the door opening and closing.. usually she sleeps.. well… like a baby on trains..

Anyways we got to PIL around 4pm and she cried from 4:15pm to 5:30pm when I finally put her to bed. I think MIL thinks shes is broken or something since she is NEVER in a good mood when we are there. And of course the Iroha comparisons were thrown like rice at a wedding… they were surprised Sakura is so skinny and long. I guess Iroha is short and round…

Anyways after nearly an hour and a half of screaming which reminded me eerily of her first 6 weeks of life – she went off to sleep in regular Sakura fashion.

Saturday she was so tired that she didn’t want to wake up at 6:30 like she usually does but Ryohei’s parents “insisted” on seeing her before they left for work so we had to wake her up at 7:45… I’m not a fan of waking sleeping babies esp. for my parents in law but we did it anyways and she was in a fairly good mood so she let them fawn over her a bit. She’s pretty look but don’t touch with them.. but then again they still try and hold her in a cradling position and now that her head is fully functional she – HATES it.

Anyways after that we headed down to Gunma! We got there pretty quick  only about an hour and fifteen minutes! Woo hoo! It was a lot of fun and Ryohei is his usual fashion was the entertainment for the bigger kids while the rest of the ladies chatted and admired the two smaller babies. It was good food and fun. Thank you so much Laura A. for hosting us and also it was great to finally meet Sophie and Sakurako. Sakurako in particular seemed to enjoy baby Sakura she was petting her head and gave her a hug as well.. very cute!

It is only an hour and a bit from Ryohei’s parents so if we use the ETC to get there its only 2000 yen round trip :) Hopefully we will be able to meet up every few months…

Anyways the way back we went back to Nagaoka and it took quite a bit longer… Sakura was pretty cranky and then it started raining so we took a rest and a parking area and had dinner there. It took us about 2.5 hours with the stop included and we were all pretty exhausted by the time we got back.

Today was supposed to be rainy but ended up being sunny so we caught up on some house chores and then drove out to a park but it was super windy and cold so we headed back after a brief stop at Akachan Honpo for Sakura and Starbucks for us!

Sakura was being SO cute this weekend.. she is SO chatty now. I wonder if she’ll continue to be a chatty baby/toddler. It makes me crack up when she tooks to us, herself, her toys, etc etc..

Hard to believe she’ll be 4 months soon. At Akachan Honpo we saw another baby crying that was about a month old.. it was a big shock to realize just how much Sakura has matured.. she doesn’t sound or look like a newborn at all. She’s trying so hard to roll over and smiles and occasionally laughs, and has head control.. it really is true time goes quickly.

I just hope this week goes quickly so we can head out to Shizuoka to see Nay and Naoki again!! I can’t wait. We haven’t seen them for over 2.5 months now. This month has really gone by fast… just another 3 weeks until we leave for America?! And then it’ll almost be 2010… I really can NOT believe it!

 

Whats going on

Posted by: Sara on: November 12, 2009

Yay its almost the weekend!!! Super excited as we have plans to go to visit the Gunma Foreign Wife contingent on Saturday. Will be meeting up with Laura (Japan Mama) for the 3rd time and Sophie and another foreign wife plus sprogs for the first time ever woo hoo!! There will be 6 kidlets aged 3.5 months (mine!) to 3 years – should be fairly crazy. Slowly meeting everyone on my blog list in the area.. don’t worry Kyushu gals we will make it down there soon enough.

Ryohei turned in his placement “wishlist” today and put down the office in Niigata City as his first and only choice. He doesn’t know if they will be taking someone this year and tells me he’d actually prefer to go there during his 3rd year but thought it wouldn’t hurt to show his interest. We were up there last weekend to visit a museum exhibit and it is a nice place. They actually have my bank there! Only one in the prefecture… so I was able to go and take a look at my balance for the first time in about 4 months. Niigata City is nice and I am crossing my fingers we will get to live there for a year or two. Does mean getting to Tokyo when I want to visit will be a bet more expensive/take longer BUT since I actually have a FRIEND in Niigata City. I’ve been trying to get myself out there… even went out with A-chan and her family but it just isn’t the same as having a buddy who can speak the language and understands the whole living in a foreign country thing.

So thats whats been going on really… Sakura had a better night last night. She had one feed around 11:30 and then slept until 5:30! First time I’ve had a long stretch of sleep for a while… woo hoo. Made things so much easier today.

Tomorrow we are leaving for Ryohei’s parents to spend the night then off to Gunma for the afternoon! NEXT weekend we are trekking out to Shizuoka to visit Nay and Naoki for the first time in a while. Then its just 2.5 weeks until Sakura and I head back home for Christmas. Need to keep myself busy as sitting at home twiddling my thumbs is a real bummer.

Toodles!

Hello Sleep Regression?

Posted by: Sara on: November 11, 2009

I’ve heard of sleep regressions before but wondering if “this” is it. Sakura has been a pretty consistent sleeper since she was born but pretty much after I got back from Osaka her nighttime sleep is worse than when she was a newborn. She’s 15 weeks now so almost 16 weeks and the sleep regression is supposed to be from “4 months” so…

She still sleeps pretty well for her first stretch of the night. Usually when I get her down around 6-7 until 11:30 or so when I go  to bed. After that shes up every 1-2 hours (awake) and needs to be nursed back to sleep – nothing else seems to work and if I don’t do anything she starts to loudly cry/vocalize…

I have been SO exhausted… she was pretty much sleeping through from 6-6 with one feed or occasionally….now I’m up more of the night than I’m asleep.

I’ve heard it can take weeks to resolve this… so not really excited and hoping that my long sleeping will be back as I had started to forget the lack of sleep exhaustion of the first 6 weeks… only to have it thrown right back in my face.

Growing up

Posted by: Sara on: November 6, 2009

Sakura can now lift her head up all the way during tummy time and keep it up for a bit – she gets tired and it starts to droop and then she gets fussy but she seems to hold it longer everyday.

We had a GREAT time in Osaka… I miss it SO SO SO SO SO much. It was so nice to see a bunch of my old friends – I think I managed to catch up with everyone I wanted to see besides one family. Hopefully next time will be a longer visit – once Sassymoos house is finished this spring she has kindly offered up her guest room so perhaps I will be able to stay about double the amount I was there this time.

I also caught up with Corinne and Fi, who I know both read this blog – so I wanted to say thank you so much. I had a wonderful time seeing you and your invitation to visit Niigata is open anytime.

In just about a month Sakura and I will be heading back to America for Christmas. Very looking forward to it but hoping the plane will be ok – I flew the 80 minutes from Niigata to Osaka and the way there was not good but the way back Sakura slept the whole way. To LA will be 12 hours and thats just the flight.. theres also about 2 hours of trains and a 2 hour drive home to work in there… its going to be a long long day. Hmm…

Anyways will also be going to see Nay in 2 weeks time!! Woo hoo – I like keeping myself busy with all these little trips… I get so lonely during the week that I need to keep going places… of course the cost adds up so once we are back from California I am going to seriously looking into trying to get some freelance work since Sakura will be about 6 months and starting on solids I think.

Here she is!

 

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Special Events!

Posted by: Sara on: October 28, 2009

Today Sakura is 3 months old!! She officially graduates from being a newborn into an infant! Woo hoo – we made it!! On latest check she is about 5.8kg and 62(!)cm and is a fairly long and skinny baby! She still has those long legs that Dr. Awful kept telling me about when she was on the inside. Her neck is really stable now – about 90% I think in about 2-3 weeks she’ll have pretty much full control of it.

She still babbles a lot and “complains” and chats its very cute!! She doesn’t really like to be held unless its Mom or Dad and she doesn’t really like us doing it that much. She would rather lie there and stare up at you… so she’s not a super cuddly baby although shes very cute! She also still craves stuff going on around her and loves to go out in the stroller or sling. She actually fell asleep in the stroller today and its to big to get into the genkan of our house so I just let her sleep in it out there next to the back sliding door…it was a nice day and I was less than a meter away from her so I figured it was ok and she had a longer nap than if I had tried to take her inside! Actually she missed her afternoon nap yesterday and it was like WW3 had started so she really needs to get in at least 3 or 4 a day. She sleeps quite a bit… if she goes for about 2 hours without a nap she is so cranky.

I got another plugged duct and experience horrible boobie pain again. I thought that after my milk supply had regulated I wouldn’t have anymore issues but the last 2 days I had a nasty hard breast and pain :( Seems to have taken care of itself though as things feel better now.

We had Sakura’s Omiyamaeri last weekend with her grandparents! Heres a sample picture for all those not on facebook!

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In other news – its Ryohei and my 3rd Anniversary as a couple! He’s not going to be around tonight because he has a drinking party… great timing, eh? But thats ok since I knew in advance and with the baby and no babysitters near by its not like we can really do anything right now.. maybe next year.

 

I guess thats it for now!

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Posted by: Sara on: October 25, 2009

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A sympathetic ear

Posted by: Sara on: October 22, 2009

Yay I made a friend!

I met A-san yesterday at our “foreign interest” oyako club. She’s the same age as me and has a cutie pie son who is about a year older than Sakura. What is TOTALLY random though is that her husband and Ryohei went to the same kindy and same elementary school together until Ryohei moved in the 4th year.

We had no idea – but since they were both from the same area we though maybe they would have heard of eachother but were surprised they were actually good friends and apparently both joined the kendo club together.

A-san was born and raised in Tokyo and told me that moving her was like moving to foreign country compared to what she was used to. THANK GOD its not just me… I was quite happy to find a kindred spirit as pretty much everyone else I’ve met here has been born and raised in the inaka and don’t realize there is more to life beyond the rice paddies.

Ryohei and her husband haven’t seen each other for about 15 years but I think next month all 6 of us are going to get together for a play date. Ryohei doesn’t have any friends in the area either so I’m hoping that he will re-kindle his friendship with his old friend so that he has someone around to do manly things like eat ramen and play videogames with. A-san seems very nice and in a year or so when Sakura is a bit older she has a handsome onii-san to play with (this little boy is REALLY cute)

Speaking of my little blossom – I will never brag about her sleep again. Three days in a row of waking up around 4am is NOT fun.. she won’t go back to sleep until 5:30 or 6 which is awful… I have been so exhausted… if it gets to 5:30 and she won’t sleep I pawn her off on to Ryohei but before then I just suck it up and nurse her or hold her until she falls asleep again. She also WOULD NOT sleep tonight… so yup I cursed my good luck. Maybe its just a passing phase – I think she’s headed into her 3 month growth spurt cause my chikubi haven’t felt this raw and sore for a while.

Oyasumi!

x-posted from my facebook but its my new fave pic!

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